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Introduction

When George Strait released “If I Know Me” on March 12, 1991, it marked the beginning of a new chapter on his eleventh studio  album, Chill of an Early Fall. Written by seasoned songwriters Pam Belford and Dean Dillon, the track immediately resonated with listeners who had come to cherish Strait’s blend of traditional country warmth and emotional honesty.

From the very first strains of the melody, “If I Know Me” captures a universal dilemma: the tug between pride and the longing to return to a lost love. Strait’s smooth, understated delivery invites us into the mind of a man who, despite his best intentions, knows himself too well to resist turning back. The song’s narrative is simple yet profound—he’s driven away, but in his heart, he knows he’ll soon be heading home.

Upon its release, “If I Know Me” climbed swiftly to the top of the charts, becoming Strait’s twenty-first No. 1 hit on both the U.S. Billboard Hot Country Singles & Tracks chart and the Canadian RPM Country Tracks chart. Its two-week reign at the summit not only reaffirmed Strait’s status as country music royalty but also underscored the enduring appeal of a ballad steeped in self-awareness and regret.

The accompanying music video, directed by Bill Young, brings the song’s wistful narrative to life. Filmed at San Antonio’s Black Swan Inn, the visuals complement Strait’s performance with understated elegance—soft lighting, gentle camera movements, and moments of contemplative stillness that mirror the song’s themes of reflection and homecoming.

More than three decades later, “If I Know Me” remains a touchstone for anyone who’s ever wrestled with their better judgment in the face of true affection. Its timeless message—that sometimes the hardest decision is knowing yourself well enough to admit you’ll always come back—continues to strike a chord with listeners of all ages. In an era when country music often chases the next big trend, this song stands as a reminder that sincerity and simplicity can still move us deeply.
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Lyrics

We both said some things
I know we never meant
And when I slammed the door tonight
You wondered where I went
If I know you
You’re probably wonderin’ what to do
You’re thinkin’ that I’m gone for good
If I know you
But if I know me
I’ll turn this car around
I won’t get half-way through town
And I’ll be sorry
I’ll stop and call
And you’ll say you’re sorry too
And I’ll come runnin’ back to you
If I know me
Sometimes I lose my head
Say things to break your heart
Forgettin’ if I lost your love
It would tear my world apart
If I know you
You didn’t mean one single thing you said
Truth be known
You’re dyin’, cryin’, lyin’, there in bed
But if I know me
I’ll turn this car around
I won’t get half-way through town
And I’ll be sorry
I’ll stop and call
And you’ll say you’re sorry too
And I’ll come running back to you
If I know me
If I know me
And I know me

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“SOME LEGENDS ALMOST WALK AWAY BEFORE THEIR STORY BEGINS.” In the late 1970s, George Strait nearly quit music altogether. He had accepted a steady job designing cattle pens in Uvalde, weary of chasing a dream that seemed to slip further away. Norma quickly noticed the change. “I didn’t want to live with him like that,” she recalled. Her encouragement gave George one last push — a promise to try for just one more year. That decision changed everything. With help from his friend Erv Woolsey, George traveled back to Nashville, only to hear again that his voice was “too country.” Rejected but not broken, he and Erv convinced MCA executives to hear the Ace In The Hole Band live in a Texas honky-tonk. This time, the spark caught. George was offered a single: a heartbroken drinking song called “Unwound.” Released in May 1981, just days before his 29th birthday, the track climbed to No. 6. George remembered hearing it on the radio while still working as a ranch foreman — shocked to recognize his own voice climbing the charts. That success led to his debut album, Strait Country, and soon after, his first No. 1 with “Fool Hearted Memory.” But Nashville wanted to mold him. They told him to lose the hat, soften the sound, lean into pop polish. George resisted. “They were trying to make me into something else, but I was too hardheaded,” he later said. By the time his fourth album was underway, he had the confidence to push back. With hits on the charts and awards in hand, George Strait claimed control of his music — and in doing so, set the course for a career that would honor tradition while rewriting history.